You probably already know that you need to engage in better self-care as a caregiver, but it can seem so difficult to do on a regular basis. It can help to start understanding some of the reasons for those difficulties so that you can look at what you can change and what you can’t. The variables you can’t change might be ones you can work around, but the ones you can change need to be adjusted.
Other People Need Help, Care, or Something Else
As a caregiver, you’re used to taking care of other people. You might not even realize how much you do so. But when you’re so focused on caring for other people in a variety of ways, that means you’re not spending time and energy taking care of your own needs. That might not always be a problem, but it is when this is the norm for you.
Your Energy Levels
Everyone has a finite amount of energy until you recharge yourself. Recharging means that you’re actively engaging in self-care, like resting when you need to, taking care of your health, and fueling your body appropriately. When you’re not doing those things, your energy levels might be a lot lower than they should be and than they need to be.
Time Is Often Short
There’s only so much time in every day. When you’re spending that time as wisely as you possibly can, there are probably still tasks and activities that you don’t get to. If self-care is one of those tasks that ends up always on the list of things you don’t manage to get to regularly, you need to rearrange how you’re spending some of your time. That’s not easy, but it will pay off because you’ll be better able to take care of others.
Other Things Are Getting in the Way
Every person’s life has other variables, too. There might be a whole list of other reasons why self-care is difficult for you to work into your daily life right now. But the thing is, you can’t keep ignoring it forever. If you try, something’s got to give and that’s usually going to be you.
It might be time for you to sit down and look at what exactly is keeping you from taking better care of yourself while you’re a caregiver. If there are challenges that you can do something about, make some of those changes.